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		<title>Comment on {end} victimization by Betty</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 05:30:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joelle, first of all, love your name! And thank you for sharing this! I rather not wallow in self pity but there are days where I am struck with sadness and it&#039;s hard to see my &#039;victimization&#039; act out or me simply trying to heal from it all.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joelle, first of all, love your name! And thank you for sharing this! I rather not wallow in self pity but there are days where I am struck with sadness and it&#8217;s hard to see my &#8216;victimization&#8217; act out or me simply trying to heal from it all.</p>
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		<title>Comment on {end} victimization by Betty</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/02/02/end-victimization/#comment-1405</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Betty]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 05:27:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lydia, it is so encouraging to know that we aren&#039;t alone. In the midst of our pain and lack of understanding, I know that God created this need in us to find people who share the same journey to encourage and push forward in the rough times. Hang in there- I am praying for you!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lydia, it is so encouraging to know that we aren&#8217;t alone. In the midst of our pain and lack of understanding, I know that God created this need in us to find people who share the same journey to encourage and push forward in the rough times. Hang in there- I am praying for you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on {end} victimization by Betty</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/02/02/end-victimization/#comment-1404</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Betty]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 05:25:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you, Priscilla! I agree, we don&#039;t know His plan and simply have to trust that it&#039;s a great one! And is like to think that when I&#039;m 30 years older and look back on this that I&#039;ll be able to understand just what God intended.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Priscilla! I agree, we don&#8217;t know His plan and simply have to trust that it&#8217;s a great one! And is like to think that when I&#8217;m 30 years older and look back on this that I&#8217;ll be able to understand just what God intended.</p>
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		<title>Comment on {end} victimization by loudsong</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/02/02/end-victimization/#comment-1403</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 05:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Only you can know how long you should keep going on tour fertilityjourbey. And while the victim comment from your friend is good and wise you should allow yourself to feel what you feel and take time to move through the stages of emotions this brings on. It&#039;s ok to not be ok with this tragedy. It truly is a life crisis and even though you can have faith in God you learn how to trust him little by little with experience. I believe he is relational and gives grace for the moment we are in right now. And not an appeasing tolerating grace a warm understanding embracing grace that loves and permissions us to just breathe and be. I guess I need to write more on this! Ha thanks for the inspiration. And I truly am with you and understand. We aren&#039;t alone are we?
Joelle-]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Only you can know how long you should keep going on tour fertilityjourbey. And while the victim comment from your friend is good and wise you should allow yourself to feel what you feel and take time to move through the stages of emotions this brings on. It&#8217;s ok to not be ok with this tragedy. It truly is a life crisis and even though you can have faith in God you learn how to trust him little by little with experience. I believe he is relational and gives grace for the moment we are in right now. And not an appeasing tolerating grace a warm understanding embracing grace that loves and permissions us to just breathe and be. I guess I need to write more on this! Ha thanks for the inspiration. And I truly am with you and understand. We aren&#8217;t alone are we?<br />
Joelle-</p>
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		<title>Comment on {end} victimization by Lydia</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/02/02/end-victimization/#comment-1400</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lydia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 02:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had to get over that mentality with the loss of our son. What helped me was all the women God suddenly brought into my life; women whose stories were the same as mine. It made me think beyond myself and helped me realize that I&#039;m not alone. Not only am I not alone, but I now have a great opportunity to be a light to women who might not have that same hope in the Lord. Like you said, God knows every part of your life. He knows what He&#039;s doing. Hang in there!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had to get over that mentality with the loss of our son. What helped me was all the women God suddenly brought into my life; women whose stories were the same as mine. It made me think beyond myself and helped me realize that I&#8217;m not alone. Not only am I not alone, but I now have a great opportunity to be a light to women who might not have that same hope in the Lord. Like you said, God knows every part of your life. He knows what He&#8217;s doing. Hang in there!</p>
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		<title>Comment on {end} victimization by scarednot2followhim</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/02/02/end-victimization/#comment-1397</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 01:39:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You do not know it is not His plan for you not to conceive all you REALLY know is that it is not yet His TIME for you to conceive. I&#039;m not saying that He doesn&#039;t have a diffrent plan for you but you can not know what His plan is. None of us know His plan if we did we&#039;d mess it up for sure! You&#039;ll get there IF it&#039;s His plan...but don&#039;t give up on Him just yet. *hugs*]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You do not know it is not His plan for you not to conceive all you REALLY know is that it is not yet His TIME for you to conceive. I&#8217;m not saying that He doesn&#8217;t have a diffrent plan for you but you can not know what His plan is. None of us know His plan if we did we&#8217;d mess it up for sure! You&#8217;ll get there IF it&#8217;s His plan&#8230;but don&#8217;t give up on Him just yet. *hugs*</p>
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		<title>Comment on {not} NOW by Betty</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/01/31/not-now/#comment-1393</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 19:45:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for sharing this, Lydia! I&#039;ll be sure to check this out soon!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for sharing this, Lydia! I&#8217;ll be sure to check this out soon!</p>
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		<title>Comment on {not} NOW by Betty</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/01/31/not-now/#comment-1392</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Betty]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 19:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lilee, it is very frustrating to be patient but I&#039;ve realized that it&#039;s the only thing we can actually control, being patient. Hang in there, the wait will be over soon enough!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lilee, it is very frustrating to be patient but I&#8217;ve realized that it&#8217;s the only thing we can actually control, being patient. Hang in there, the wait will be over soon enough!</p>
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		<title>Comment on {not} NOW by Lydia</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/01/31/not-now/#comment-1390</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lydia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 14:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Betty, I wanted to share with you a blogpost that a dear friend wrote just yesterday. I think you will find it encouraging, because it deals with exactly what you&#039;re talking about. http://thestoryof5princesses.blogspot.com/2012/01/when-life-doesnt-go-as-plannedsome.html

This dear friend and her husband have 3 adopted daughters from Korea. Their most recent daughter brought the biggest challenges and hurdles. Out of all three of the adopted girls, they had to wait the longest for this one. They knew about her when she was only weeks old, but she wasn&#039;t finally into their arms until months after she turned one year. In the blog, my friend talks about the challenges of waiting and God&#039;s divine timing. I read that post and immediately thought of you. I hope you&#039;re able to find comfort in her words.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Betty, I wanted to share with you a blogpost that a dear friend wrote just yesterday. I think you will find it encouraging, because it deals with exactly what you&#8217;re talking about. <a href="http://thestoryof5princesses.blogspot.com/2012/01/when-life-doesnt-go-as-plannedsome.html" rel="nofollow">http://thestoryof5princesses.blogspot.com/2012/01/when-life-doesnt-go-as-plannedsome.html</a></p>
<p>This dear friend and her husband have 3 adopted daughters from Korea. Their most recent daughter brought the biggest challenges and hurdles. Out of all three of the adopted girls, they had to wait the longest for this one. They knew about her when she was only weeks old, but she wasn&#8217;t finally into their arms until months after she turned one year. In the blog, my friend talks about the challenges of waiting and God&#8217;s divine timing. I read that post and immediately thought of you. I hope you&#8217;re able to find comfort in her words.</p>
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		<title>Comment on {not} NOW by Lilee</title>
		<link>http://coffeewithbetty.com/2012/01/31/not-now/#comment-1389</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lilee]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 04:15:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree and not having the things I want NOW to happen now is very frustrating. I want to move now, I want my husband and I to be settled back in our own place after our move now, I want his medical situation over with now and I want us to make our baby now but none of it is happening and it&#039;s so frustrating to be patient. :(]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree and not having the things I want NOW to happen now is very frustrating. I want to move now, I want my husband and I to be settled back in our own place after our move now, I want his medical situation over with now and I want us to make our baby now but none of it is happening and it&#8217;s so frustrating to be patient. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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